My heart hurts.
One of the worst moments in loving someone is to see them in pain. My heart hurts to see my loved ones said or injured. It is more upsetting to me than when I’m physically hurt because there’s almost always nothing you can do to help. Sure, you can be there and support them, but most of the times, you have to watch that person suffer, and your heart will hurt for them.
Loving someone means being empathetic, and, while this empathy helps you connect to this person, it means that sometimes you will feel the pain they feel. Know that even if you can’t do anything directly to help them get through their pain, that being there is the greatest gift you can give them. Listen to them, and let them know that you’ll be there to help in any way you can. But just know that your heart will hurt.